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Anonymous asked: okay there is this guy at school and i really like him and he holds my hand, hugs me and he has tried to kiss me 2 times. everyone is saying go for it and ask him out but im unsure if he likes me or not and i dont want to make a fool of myself.

From what you’re saying, I’d say go for it too. Especially if he holds your hand in public. That’s such an innocent “i like you” gesture. Don’t worry about making a fool out of yourself. You have a lot of people backing you.

cagebirdsing asked: Honestly, I'm not to fond of my appearence.i know people say looks don't matter but nowadays they kind of do. Anyway, I like this one kid, real nice and he's one of my bestfriends. we joke around like buds, but I want to tell him how I actually feel, I just can't bring my self to tell him. I feel like if I do tell him and he doesn't like me it'll ruin everything , on the other hand if I don't tell him and he does like me but is intimidated I'll miss my oppertunity. what should I do?

Ease into it. Test the waters so to speak. Like in the question I just answered try flirting a little. I feel like flirting definitely helps cuz the person has to react to it. And you can see how they react. Im guessing if you’re best friends, you probably text. If not text more. Talk all the time if you want to. Maybe one day just slip it into the conversation. Think of all the good things that could come if he likes you back. 

Anonymous asked: i think I'm in love with my best guy friend.. what do i do? I mean, i don't wanna ruin our friendship. HELP! :T

SO, I’ve gone through this a few times too many. I wouldn’t really say that I was completely in love but I’ve had feelings for guy friends. The first thing that I’d do is obviously flirt, see if he returns the feelings. If you think that he might be interested in taking the next step talk to him about it. If you guys think that it could work out, then go for it. If you start going out and its weird, just make sure he knows it. Before doing any of that make sure you realize that if it ends badly it’ll probably be awkward. But you were best friends before, you can get back to it. You have to really evaluate if it’s worth it to risk it. I can’t make up your mind for you. But this is what I advise. 

Anonymous asked: So there is this guy. he is cute, smart, sarcastic, funny, and he smokes a lot which doesn't really bother me. he has asked me to hang out lots of times and we have tentative plans to hang out soon. i can't tell if he is a player though, i don't want just a one time thing. what do you think?

I think you should talk to him about it. See how he feels. if you don’t want to be really direct try flirting and see his reaction. If he flirts back you might be a little more comfortable coming out and saying, hey, i like you. 

Anonymous asked: How do I make my crush fall for me??

First of all you can’t make someone fall for you. However, you can try getting closer to them by starting off talking a little bit you know flirting, get to be friends, hang out in groups. Then start hanging out alone. Maybe along the way he/she will fall for you because they’ll get to know all of your great qualities. 

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Anonymous asked: Could I ask you something? I am only 15 but I respect girls alot more than average guys do, I would never say 'I'd tap that' or woah, you're sexy/hot'. Because I know most girls would rather be called beautiful and pretty :) I would do anything for my next girlfriend, I would be spontaneous, romantic and funny:) I would buy her little presents. & we would talk until she falls asleep, in my arms. I would love her more than anything<3 . But I was just asking, does this make me a good boyfriend?:)

I think any girl would be lucky to have a guy like you. Just be careful because some girls might try to take advantage of your kindness. Other than that, you should be my boyfriend. ;) haha.

Anonymous asked: So My boyfriend always talking about... you know "Doing it" but i dont want to! And i always tell him no but he keeps grabing me and stuff.. I dont know what to say to get him to stop... Any advice?

Just explain to him that you’re not ready for it yet and by forcing it he’s only pushing you further away from wanting to do it. Let him know how much better it will be when you actually are excited to do it!

Anonymous asked: im scared to try to be in a relationship because I am scared I will never feel the same way that I felt when I was with my exboyfriend, and its been two years.

try not to be afraid! it’ll be scary but you’ll never know if you don’t try (:

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Anonymous asked: okay so i just got out of an engagement that he ended, and i have no idea what to do. i'm working on getting over him, but i can't get him out of my head because we've been through so much together. on the other hand, every potential boy there is to date knows about my broken off engagement, and is now too afraid to ask me out. so questions: 1. how do i get over this guy? and 2. how do i get other guys to ask me out and is it too silly and weird to ask the other guys out?

guys shouldn’t be afraid to ask you out. in order to get over this guy, you need to start off by having fun with the girls. your girls are your support system. once you are having fun with your friends, go out and meet people. its not silly to ask other guys out. if you like them, go for it. you never know what will happen. its not a rule that only the guy can start the relationship.

hope this helped, at least a little.

Anonymous asked: I have a problem. So I get home, I've already been having a bad day, I sit down on the couch and my girlfriend rings me to tell me she's coming over. So we started making out and she took off my pants but then I turned on the tv, and that's about the time she walked away from me. Nobody likes you when you're 23. And your more amused by tv shows. What the hell is add? My friends say I should act my age, what's my age again? What's my age again?

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Anonymous asked: my dicks too big. what do

i dont see how this is possible and your question is incomplete.

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